Discipline
Grief and the Mind
Grief is not a problem to be solved but a process to be understood, and understanding it changes how it is carried. This discipline teaches what grief does to attention, memory, and the body, what the research actually says about its course, and how continuing bonds replace the false promise of closure.
You will be able to recognise what grief does to the body and the mind, tell ordinary grief from the kind that needs help, and hold a continuing bond without waiting for closure.
The topics
Primary sources
Every statute, form, and agency cited here. When in doubt, trust these over anyone, including us.
Government
- 988 Suicide and Crisis LifelineFree, confidential support by call or text to 988, available at any hour, for anyone in emotional distress and not only for people who are suicidal.opens in a new tab
- National Institute on Aging: Coping with grief and lossThe federal clinical institute's plain account of what grief does to sleep, appetite and concentration, and its statement that the wide emotional range is normal.opens in a new tab
- National Cancer Institute: Grief, bereavement, and coping with loss, PDQ health professional versionThe clinical evidence summary, including why the five stage model has limited empirical support and what the research actually shows about the course of grief.opens in a new tab
- National Institute on Aging: Grief and mourningThe institute's index of its grief material, including guidance for people supporting someone who is bereaved.opens in a new tab
- Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration: 988 frequently asked questionsWhat happens when you call or text, who answers, and what the Lifeline does and does not do, which is worth knowing before you need it.opens in a new tab
Nonprofit
- American Psychiatric Association: Prolonged grief disorderWhere the clinical line is drawn between the ordinary course described here and a diagnosable condition, with the current criteria.opens in a new tab
- Frontiers in Psychiatry: Prolonged grief disorder in ICD-11 and DSM-5-TR, differences in prevalence and diagnostic criteriaA peer reviewed comparison of the two criteria sets in a representative population sample, with the prevalence figures for each.opens in a new tab